Radical 7even is online blog that follows the spiritual journey of a group of friends. We all are going through major transitions in our life. Some of us have recently made major decisions in our life while others are waiting and wondering what is the next step, when to take that step and how. Nevertheless, we all want our relationship with God to grow; to be prosperous mentally, spiritually, physically, and intellectually; and want to make a difference in this world. So, together, we decided to challenge God by giving Him 7 years to radically change our life the way He sees fit. It takes a lot of faith to challenge God, but also to surrender our life to Him to do as He please. So, God has challenged us to take action in this process because in a relationship it takes two to make it work. So, we have pledge the following: - We must create 7 goals to accomplish each year and try our best to accomplish them. - We must do one thing outside our comfort zone a week called "Radical Moment" -We must journal at least once a week about our radical moment and/or how we are one step closer to accomplishing a goal on our list. We can journal using video, a tweet, poem, short story, or various other media (all will be under one of the name Radical 7even). To be honest it is not about the destination (or the goal we have to accomplish), it is really about the journey of getting there because sometimes things change, plans change; but, learning something on the way the way adds value and wisdom to life. As we share our journey with you, we hope that you are touched to the point that you will want to share your journey with others. What's the point of success if you don't have people to share it with. This is why we choose to do this. We all are different and have different aspirations in life, but the one things that will never change is the sisterhood we have. And it will only grow stronger as time and this journal progress. -the HIS girls
This has been a week of firsts. I’ve moved to a new city, in a new apartment and started a new job. Renee always encourages us to blog in the moment, when emotions and thoughts are fresh. I decided to write about my first week at my new job and being in a new city.
Week 1 Day 2
I meant to do one for Day 1, but I was tired and Snicker bar hungry. I don’t see myself as a person who’s doing extraordinary things. In all honesty, people have to sit me down most times and remind me that I am indeed a dream chaser. One of my goals for Year 7 was to take more risks. Well, I decided I would start off with a bang. Last weekend, my fiancée and I packed what we could in my and her car and we got keys to our new apartment in Birmingham. I started my new job Monday and she had her final interview (she got hired!) I feel a bit overloaded but I am excited about the new opportunities.
Traffic is something that I have to get used to. It can be frustrating. I am still amazed that I am here, that I really, like real deal moved. Everyone at the new job has been very nice and accommodating. I am learning new things everyday and I am happy to know that I get to continue my mission of being a helper and helping women and men empower themselves to become independent.
Today has been awesome. I was able to get a tour of my work site. It’s great to be able to be with a program where it is in its first beginning stages, to help with its foundation. They are currently making a way for some new things and I am excited for them to come to fruition.
TGIF!!! This has been a great first week. I have been able to have a great week of fundamentals. I am a big advocate that if you give an employee a good foundation to stand upon, it is beneficial in retaining employees. I used today to complete trainings and read through information.
The first week of Many!
Posted in Uncategorized on September 17, 2017
Being a parent,I know understand the references to The Most High being our father. So far I’ve only had very small children so questions of their obedience was few and far between. As my bous
It’s been one wild journey trying to seek after The Most High. I’m excited to see what He will do next! I decided to do seven goals which are basically an accumulation of my goals over the years. …so without further ado…. Year 7 Goals:
1. Eliminate debt:
Proverbs 22:26-27 Do not be among those who give pledges, Among those who become guarantors for debts. If you have nothing with which to pay, Why should he take your bed from under you?
I am ready to make employment decisons based on only the Call TMH has on my life and not just worrying about paying bills. I’ve been blessed to work by following my heart but..that also means I haven’t always had the highest pay. I’ve been really doing some research on minimalism and really trying to simplify some things and maximize experiences. The combination of sheding unneeded things will help free up cash to pay off some debt.
Take more risks:
Matthew 19:26 Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.
I tend to be overly cautious and rigid. Having four boys has taught me that anything can and will happen. It’s not the what it’s the how. How will you handle new situations or stressful situations. I’m ready to do more and stretch my potential.
This is recycled from last year. I want to take the boys a few places this year but I also want an adult get away. It’s important to explore the world around you.
Read a book a month
Again…pretty simple. I think I’d be further ahead in life had i read more. I have to stay focused to get this task completed.
Find a church home:
Hebrews 10:25King James Version (KJV)
Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.
Since moving to Birmingham I’ve went to church a handful of times. This saddens me because I was once so active. I know tje benefit of setting aside a day just for God and I miss the communion.
Increase social interactions:
I tend to stay home alot. Which is new. This is a result of being sick for months on with HG. Home gets comfortable but I need to grow and do more.
Read the Bible all the way through:
Joshua 1:8 For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success.
Again I said I’d make this a goal until I complete this task. So here’s hoping this time I complete it!
Seven(7) is supposed to be lucky, right? It has been said to have been used 435 times in the bible. It is also called to be the number of completeness and perfection. 7 years ago, we started this journey with 8 of us. We were/are apart of bible study group called HIS (Heavenly Inspired Sisters). The group has dwindled during the years but the goal is still the same: Living Radically for Christ.
I have learned that living radically for Christ doesn’t come in a neat package. It comes in beat up box that Fedex puts on your front door, without ringing your door bell. I am also learning that my relationship with God will not be the same as the rest of my sisters and that’s okay. We have learned so much about God and each other during these past 6 years.
I am looking forward to sharing my journey with you this year.
This year, I decided to do something that I haven’t done in about 2 years, which is to create 7 full goals. Radical!!!!!
YEAR 7 GOALS
- Take more risks. If I am honest with myself, I have been playing it safe for the last 2 years. I haven’t been asking God to do miraculous things in my life. I am asking for things, safe things but not for things that only God could do. I want to live my life for God and being more radical in living and believing in God.
- Create an emergency fund. This is a necessary goal for me and my beginning family. I want to change the way I view and use money and I want to put myself in a position that if something happened that it wouldn’t be a set back for us.
- Read everyday. Beginning in middle school, reading was my gateway to issues I was having at home. I could easily read 2 books a week. Now, it’s hard for me to finish a newspaper article (Well, not that bad but you get my drift.) I want to read something everyday. I will keep you all updated on what I am reading. This is also a goal I had in year 1 and 2.
- Be more intentional with my blog. I have a lifestyle/fashion blog called The Life and Times of DaniGee. I did more blog posts this past year than the other years combined. I did a lot of mental health related posts, which I do want to continue to be a part of what I write about but I want to steer it back to doing my fashion and beauty related posts and my own personal style.
- Write a short story. My ultimate goal is to write a book but I want to try my hand at being an author of short story. I’ve already joined a facebook group and will begin formulating an outline.
- Find a church home. I am moving soon ( I hope to blog about this in the near future) I have a goal that I can find a church home that suits my needs and provides me with guidance and really shows the meaning of loving thy neighbor.
- Don’t let my anxiety take over my life. I am open to researching ways to defeat my anxiety. I admit that it rules too much of my life and I am so tired of it.
Here’s to Year 7.
Posted in Uncategorized on August 31, 2017
I finally got a chance to watch the movie Collateral Beauty. Well really not got the chance but actually wanted to watch it. When I first saw the trailer I was like nope, seems too sad. But… I took a chance and was pleasantly surprised.
I wont spoil the movie but the premise is a man loses his young daughter to cancer. He’s unable to cope and turns into a recluse. He speaks to no one but writes a letter to death, time and love everyday.
It got me thinking…
What would I say to those entities if they were a person. We all in one way or another fight with these entities our whole lives. We try to forget someone we no longer want to love. We try to hold onto someone who is slipping away by death either slowly pulling them from us…or worse they are gone in a flash. And time….time creeps by and then you look up…and you’re 30 wondering how you got here.
The older I get, I realize how precious life is. How quickly things change. I see my parents getting older everyday. I am blessed to have both sets of grandparents still walking this earth. I see the wisdom they hold and fear I won’t get enough time to dip into their wells of knowledge. I see my boys and realize in the blink of an eye they will be adults. I see my husband and think a lifetime isn’t enough time to spend with him.
When I think of all the bittersweet moments in my life I see the beauty. When I lost Baby Smith, I began to appreciate the true gift of motherhood. When I REALLY struggled with HG, sick everyday and how my husband comforted me. How tender and loving he was. When Darren wasnt breathing I got to appreciate life in general. How this precious soul fought his way into this cruel world and reminds me to never give up.
I am reminded how bloodied my Saviour was for me and how that act of sacrifice is beautiful although it came through so much pain.
It all has a purpose….
Posted in Uncategorized on August 26, 2017
I cant believe Radical 7even is almost over. So much has changed since starting on this path. The bloggers have dwindled as have some friendships, but here we are…entering the last year!
Year Six…well let’s just say Darren K.W. Smith really threw my goals for a loop…but let’s recap
My goals were:
- Write to heal
- Experience life
- Using my voice
- Read for my life
- Eat for my life
1. Write to heal.
This goal…just didn’t quite take off. I didn’t blog as diligently as I should have. I did do some other things to heal. For the first time I participated in counseling. Counseling really helped me refocus on me and my husband. A huge chunk of my focus is always my kids, but you cant pour from an empty cup. My husband and I also had a bad habit of putting the kids before us, date nights suffered and our first trip without kids came 4 years into our marriage. Counseling helped me realize that parenting is indeed important but having two healthy and whole parents will ensure healthy parenting can occur.
2. Experience life
So….. zero percent was done ..minus the fact I birthed a new life. Lol. My hyperemis gravardium had me down totally for 6 months and semi down two extra months. When I finally felt well enough to travel I was too pregnant to travel. But…I have a feeling my last year of Rad7even this will be a lot more eventful.
3. Using my voice
My levels of passive aggressiveness has gone down a ton. I’ve been addressing things head on and I really feel out of all my goals this is the one Im most proud of and also has been the most successful.
4. Read for my life
Um………so….i downloaded the audible app. And listened to a book halfway through. I think i should finish it before the end of the year. Im also doing a devotion that will allow me to read through the Bible in 90 days…unfortunately I’m 15 days behind lol…..so.. maybe 90 plus 15 days I’ll be done. The devotion has someone reading 16 plus chapters a day. I tend to get sidetracked looking up old maps and commentary so I do like maybe 8 or so a day. I feel this is fine because I’m studying and not just reading through.
5. Eat for my life
This goal was side tracked for 8 months because I was only able to eat fatty foods and drink tea while pregnant. I have done much better since having Darren K.W. I’ve been back on my Pinterest game and made more things from scratch and with fresh ingredients.
Posted in Uncategorized on August 20, 2017
It’s been one month and one day since Darren was born and it has been a whirlwind. Nursing is going well and he has gained weight fast! I’m not as tired as I was but…still not fully rested. We found out that Darren’s umbilical cord was not centered in the placenta; this caused the cord to be constricted with each contraction leaving Darren with minimum oxygen. I’m glad to have some answers and even happier that God allowed my water to break first so I would go straight to the hospital and not labor at home.Lennon is now officially fully potty trained and has been since we brought the baby home. The big boys are officially in second grade and started school not long ago..so I’m semi back on a schedule. LaDarren had surgery on his ankle on Friday (two days ago) so far,so good.
I got off of Facebook and Instagram on August 2. I felt it was a distraction and I really needed to hear from my Father. I also started a 90 day read-through-the-entire Bible devotion…that’s been a tough reading schedule. Which means I’m behind. But…I have been listening to the Bible which has caused me to have my daily readings again.
I’m not going to lie summer is not my season. Summers are usually very difficult for me..it’s almost always a season of pruning for me… I usually have weird (well I should say painful) transitions and I always spend my time struggling with my faith because it is so difficult. Fall is my season for change…which usually has very strong ups and downs…but the ups are sooooooo much better than my downs. Summer…is not quite that easy. This summer I’ve been attacked in pretty much every area of my life. There was some mix up with my maternity leave paperwork and I missed a paycheck; Hubby was injured at work and we don’t have STD (short term disability) so…we will only get 2/3 of his check for the next…3 months. Ive also not received financial support for Daniel in months…and months. Daniel did spend two weeks with his father this summer which was great for Daniel and his dad. His dad also purchased his school supplies (so…progress 🤔). The kids are back in school and we are trying to push them to greatness in all areas. Nursing is going well…but Darren absolutely refuses to take a bottle which means it’s been difficult to share responsibilities with Hubby. Today’s the anniversary of my cousin’s murder. 3 years…he’s been gone.
Been a rough time, but I know to lean on “all things work together…”. I know God loves me and my babies…He will provide peace,financial stability and purpose. I just have to trust the process… which I’m still learning. When I blog again I guarantee a testimony!